Want to know how to love yourself? Yes, well join the club. There are millions of us in it and most of us will never know how to love ourselves. Heck, many folk do not even like themselves. Unfortunately, if this is you, then you will probably never find total fulfillment or reach your true potential on a professional or a personal level.
You see, in order to progress in any area of your life, you need drive, ambition and motivation. Now, in order to get these things, there needs to be a total belief in your abilities and in your mind. You really need to believe that you DESERVE success. If you do not, you will find it almost impossible to follow your dreams through to reality, because at the first hurdle or the first pang of doubt, you will throw in the towel and quit chasing the goal.
You will probably find yourself in a cycle of dreams, chasing dreams and broken dreams.
If this sounds familiar, do not give up just yet, because there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Anyone who knows me, will tell you that I suffered from the most crippling shyness and lack of self-confidence. At school, I would flush bright red if a teacher addressed me in class and stare at the floor when people of authority spoke to me. Lack of confidence really is debilitating and will completely stop you from fulfilling your life goals.
You may have tried therapies, positive affirmations, courses, NLP and anything else that promised increased self-esteem. And while all these things have their benefits, none of them made an impact on my lack of self-love.
BUT and here's where it gets interesting. I decided to train as a hypnotist to increase my happiness rating. And I have to say that to a certain extent, self-hypnosis helped break the boundaries that I had been holding onto. Yet, that only took me so far and it was not until I discovered subliminal messaging that the cloak really fell away and I felt freer than I had done in years. My confidence levels soared into orbit and I tackled challenges that I would never in a million years have tried before. Today I feel full of hope and excitement about what each new day brings. Heck, I admit it..I'm totally in love with myself. And that's something I never thought I'd say.
I will try to briefly explain what subliminal messaging is, without it sounding mystical or strange.
Our conscious mind is where we make conscious decisions and our unconscious mind contains every memory and every belief that we hold about ourselves. Who we are is contained in the unconscious part of our brain and we act out certain behaviors in accordance with the information stored in there.
When we are lacking in confidence, we unconsciously believe that we are shy, withdrawn and uninteresting. And until those long-held beliefs are replaced, we will have as shy and withdrawn people.
This can not be done consciously willing it to happen, we need to somehow retrain the brain to believe we are confident, happy and descripting of fulfillment. These are the messages that subliminal audio recordings convey to us, until, with enough repetition, the positive and beneficial beliefs will replace the negative, damaging ones.
Learning how to love yourself will not happen overnight, but with patience and perseverance, I pretty much guarantee that if you use subliminal messaging, you will notice a massive impact on your self-esteem.